tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808414072457687433.post1329472524386917148..comments2023-03-29T05:31:06.375-04:00Comments on speak of the indescribable: Grounded.Catehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17077152308908421295noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808414072457687433.post-37523708115406609892009-05-07T21:46:00.000-04:002009-05-07T21:46:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry, Cate. I am definitely praying.
Many...I'm so sorry, Cate. I am definitely praying.<br />Many Hugs,<br />AmandaAmanda Hoythttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02895652232932076943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808414072457687433.post-56449839814717197512009-05-07T08:09:00.000-04:002009-05-07T08:09:00.000-04:00Little Catiebug,
If I could hug you right now, I w...Little Catiebug,<br />If I could hug you right now, I would. This is a bittersweet week for you. You know that I'm praying for you both. I think the "nursemom" thing is a protective reaction for me (I won't speak for Ben's mom). If I get clinical, then I don't have the chance to get emotional. I don't have to show how much I hurt for you and Ben. I would do anything if you weren't dealing with this. I admire you for your faith and strength. <br />Remember that Job did nothing to bring about his suffering. It was a contest between Satan and God. Never once did Job curse God or lose faith. We know who won that contest. Stay strong, Cupcake. We don't know what the future holds, but we know Who holds the future.<br />Love you forever!momqathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12376962166770992010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808414072457687433.post-88938527533058593412009-05-07T00:55:00.000-04:002009-05-07T00:55:00.000-04:00I've never commented on your blog before. But toni...I've never commented on your blog before. But tonight I feel like I have something to add. So here goes: <br /><br />I can't begin to understand what you are going through in regards to IF.<br /><br />But as a fellow employee in the social service field, I completely relate to feeling like you can't take a day off, because so many people depend on you. <br /><br />I totally get that. I use to work such long days, never taking a break, eating on my way to another session etc. <br /><br />But what I discovered was, taking a day, an hour, a lunch break did so much for me--that I was then able to be a better and bigger help to my clients. <br /><br />I hope you don't think I'm telling you what to do, or suggesting you aren't helping your clients. I'm certain you are helping them. I just hope you remember to take care of yourself too. It is SO incredibly important. And you are SO worth that time. <br /><br />I know it's easier said than done, to find the time to care for ourselves. But my hope and wish for you is that you are able to find that time. And when you do: ENJOY IT!! You deserve it. <br /><br />I am not a religious person, so it would be fake for me to say I'm praying for you. But know that I am hoping and wishing for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808414072457687433.post-60041046114587558852009-05-06T10:54:00.000-04:002009-05-06T10:54:00.000-04:00::hugs::::hugs::Mrs.Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04042596737087181199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808414072457687433.post-59234173678012629842009-05-05T22:20:00.000-04:002009-05-05T22:20:00.000-04:00I def catch myself "working" with family/friends s...I def catch myself "working" with family/friends sometimes and I really try to shut my mouth...but it can be so hard sometimes, just wanting to help! :) Anyways, I know how it doesn't matter what the people you love do for a living, or what they know, what you need from them first and foremost is to just be that person, and nothing else, so you can just be you and nothing else... <br /><br />I think it's great that you're blogging, for so many reasons, so I'm glad you're keeping it up.<br /><br />And I'm praying for you. I love you girl. (and in some way I guess I love Ben too, since I love you and you love him and he loves you...:P)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808414072457687433.post-66818936770058678232009-05-05T16:57:00.000-04:002009-05-05T16:57:00.000-04:00I know we may not know each other well, but we do ...I know we may not know each other well, but we do share a bond.<br /><br />No matter your outcome, please know you have been an inspiration to me. I thought I was in a world by myself, and you helped me in my toughest time.<br /><br />We'll get our happy endings. Maybe not tomorrow...but we will.<br /><br />=)JaimeLounoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808414072457687433.post-56825510184601437112009-05-05T16:25:00.000-04:002009-05-05T16:25:00.000-04:00I am so sorry. Things never seem to go the way you...I am so sorry. Things never seem to go the way you want them to. I know exactly what you mean when you said that sometimes you just want to be yourself. Just a 25 year old wife, friend, individual, someone that can be defined as anything other than infertile. I am so sorry you're going through all of this. I also understand what you mean when you just want your mom to be your mom. Mine tends to get too judgmental about what I am doing and when and forgets to hug me and say "this sucks and I'm sorry."<br /><br />Blogging is a blessing and a curse for all those reasons you mentioned. Just know that you are helping people, even though you may open yourself up for more comments than you want sometimes. It helps me to read your blog, to know I am not alone in feeling the way that I feel, to know that there is another human being dealing with the same horrible hurts that I am dealing with. It helps to have a friend that knows and understands, even if they are just over the internet. <br /><br />I hope things get easier, Cate, and I am so sorry you are having a hard time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com